Toul Sleng

These photos were taken on a harrowing visit in 2002 to the Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum, which is housed in what was Security Prison 21 (S-21), a former high school that was converted into an interrogation and torture centre by the Khmer Rouge. During 1975-79, more than 17,000 people held at S-21 were subsequently executed there or at the Killing Fields of Choeung Ek. One of the most striking aspects of the museum is that it shows genocide 'on the cheap'. The high school looks as if little more than a week's effort was made to convert it into a torture centre, with the torture implements themselves simple household items or gym equipment from the school. Intentionally, we have not been to the museum many times, even though everyone who visits Cambodia should see it, because it is so distressing. We finally took Martin in 2008, as it seemed time for him to see with his own eyes what we had only talked about before, and he was willing to see it; Lisa has yet to go.

The pictures show the prisoners' security regulations; a torture room (with a photograph of the last vistim on the wall); the faces of the dead; the function of Building 'C'; some of the cells; and a view through the barbed wire into the courtyard.

Transitions

Today's post is a guest one by Lisa, illustrated by a Skype screenshot!

"After spending almost half of my life as a missionary kid in Cambodia, making the transition back to life in England and the Western world has certainly been something of an adventure for me. Despite only having been back for a month, I have already been through what has felt like a rollercoaster of emotion. Saying goodbye to my family for the year was a low point, but since then I have had so many high points – laughing until I cried with the [host family's] girls, having endless bubble baths and glasses of fresh, English milk, chatting away happily with my family over Skype and seeing old friends again, to name a few. My first trip to Tesco filled me with amazement – I had almost forgotten the abundance of lovely food here in England, and couldn’t wait to help myself to sausage rolls, nectarines and all the other silly little things I missed so much living in Cambodia. The truth is that at first, even the thought of doing something as ordinary as getting the bus filled me with anxiety – what was I supposed to say? What if I couldn’t find the right change, or ended up in Greenstead, or even violated some unspoken code of conduct that all ordinary English people knew?

Since then, however, I feel like I have really settled into life here in England with [my host] family. I can now be seen each morning catching the bus in to town like any other English college student, but I know that I’ll never forget the time I spent in Cambodia – it will always be a part of me. You might even say that a little piece of my heart is still there, across all the oceans that lie between us."

So What About Martin?

While his sister, Lisa, has gone back to the UK to study, Martin (14) continues here in Cambodia, having just started his fourth year at Hope International School. He is in Year 9, the last year before the start of two year's formal preparation for IGCSEs (an English school exam, usually taken at age 16). Hope is an exam centre for Cambridge International Examaminations (CIE), offering IGCSEs and subsequently AS levels, although not A2s, as yet. Martin enjoys reading, and often reads when others might socialise! The photo above shows him waiting in a tuk tuk outside Hope school, deep in a book. He is also keen on computer games, and whilst he has now stopped playing EvE Online (mainly due to the monthly subscription charge), he has returned to Guild Wars, another massive multiplayer online game, as well as playing a variety of single-player games. Martin is a difficult chap to photograph, always trying to avoid the camera, but I've included three below. The first shows him looking rather hot, drinking a cup of tea (or coffee) from his favourite mug; one in an orchid garden in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia late 2007; and the final one with his sister in Prajuap, Thailand in July.

NISC - The Children's Old School

When we arrived in Cambodia in 2001, there was quite a limited choice of international schools. The Northbridge International School (NISC) was a little bit cheaper than the International School of Phnom Penh (ISPP), and OMF had started to form a good relationship with the school. As a result, we were able to get first a group discount, and subsequently, as we seconded first one, then two teachers to the school, a reduction of fees in lieu of their salary. Consequently, like many OMF parents at the time, we sent Lisa and Martin to NISC for four years (2001-2005). The school was international, with students and teachers from many different countries, but followed an American syllabus, and while it was a secular school, there were many Christian teachers amongst the faculty, and it had a warm and friendly atmosphere. Coming from the UK, it was tricky at times to get a real feel as to how our children were doing - the American style was always to give encouragement - but the children learned well there, and there weren't any major gaps in their knowledge when they switched back to English education during our Home Assignment in 2005/6. In the end, with no more OMF teachers 'in the pipeline' to second, and with the children having made the transition to English style education, the obvious choice on our return was Hope International School, which is not only a Christian school, but also much more affordable; more on that in a later post! The picture above, and those below, were all taken at NISC early on Australia Day, 26 January, 2002, before the crowds built up.

So Where's Lisa Now?

Although looking very young (8) in my last post, Lisa is now 16 years old. From 2006 to 2009, she studied at Hope International School, here in Phnom Penh, and took eight IGCSEs earlier this year. Unfortunately, while Hope offers AS levels in Years 12 and 13, it does not offer A2s, which Lisa needs to get into university. As a result, she has now gone back to England, and is living with a host family in Colchester for one year. Next year, when we go back on Home Assignment, we are planning for her to move back in with us, unless she's grown to like her new host family more! She has just started attending The Sixth Form College, Colchester, doing five AS levels, and hopefully going on to her A2s there next year. We manage to Skype and email quite a lot, and we are looking forward to her visit back to Cambodia over the Christmas break, but it is still hard having her so far away from us. The picture, by the way, was taken on the beach at Prajuap, Thailand, during our last family holiday together before she left.